My new life

Bal Didin
4 min readDec 29, 2020

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Changes in life make it more attractive and funny , and when we grow our responsiblity grows with us , sometimes we think that we struggle in life to acheive our goals and most of time we lose important things due to our dertermination .

This is my small story and what i concluded from my modest expercience

Graduation

As most of the young students, I finished my university degrees at the age 23

I was very determined from the first day in the university to the last year and as a model I didn’t enter to any resit courses.

When I finished my university I thaught that I will find work from the first day that I took my diploma in the pocket this was normal because 100/100 of the last promotion in my School they got a job After one day or their graduation.

But unfortunately that wasn’t the case for me After getting my diploma the influence of the economic crises had effect the market of jobs and as a result i couldn’t seek a job and i was the point that my life changed in.

Searching for the job in those circumstances caused for me a serious problem especially i Lost the trust on Education and scientific research i was depressed all the Time and i couldn’t do any thing except searching for the job

After 8 months of unemployment, I finally catch a job in good position That i suspected, and it wasn’t my first day in the job.in general because i had the habit of working part Time job when i was student but this time it will be a full Time job. 

I started as counsellor of youth in département full of workers whos I share with most of them the same degree I remember when I started I had no official office why the manager gives me instructions to help the chief of the department in his work,After 6 months of working with the chief department I took his place as a chief and the manager decide to give me the responsibility of leading the department instead of the last one whos was changed.

This event was the first event when I felt happy and sad in the same time happy for my career that I am working for and sad for my chief that she left her position because of me.

After few days I recognised that I deserved this position, and I started to apply my few ideas on work it was hard top play the rôle of responsible and leader at the same time that what took me to holding most of the tasks in the département I was working hard day and night and for one in my age my position was like a dream for most of my Friends.

I was Highly recommended by the team i led and even from others in other départements.

After two years in my position, a very strong knowledge and experience was added to my profil and by the coïncidence i decided to participate in training days and the subject Is “entrepreneurship” it was the point that changed my life After getting this training days I was very determined and I started giving youth basics of creating their CV how they seek for a job and how create small business.

The Big change

Few months After this certificate a New position of the job was offered for me but I choose to continue my job and giving the workshop as a volunteer to youth and it was like a Window to see the other World i remember that i was felt that like a New one a certificate of few days make a Big change more than my graduation degrees

After participating as a volunteer in many days or training workshop I learned day After day New skills:

  1. How to combine between two positions a trainer and youth counselor
  2. Improve my skills in english and french.
  3. Creating a Big network with all categories of ages
  4. Having view on the ONG framework methodes.

Those things led me to look with the eye of proud on my self and gives me the energy to avail any opportunity of training and getting New skills and it was the case I had participated any many workshop days and in multidisciplinary subjects what gives me a very strong knowledge in various fields. 

Working full Time day and night sometimes I worked even on the weekend in the first Time it was difficult but attractive but carry on with the same rhythm obligate;me to struggle and to ignore other important things and my health was the Price what i paid in my situation;

A problem in health obligates me to think over and over sure I learned a lot of things sure I contribute in the development of my society but which price I paid for that I gave my health and my whole time to add value but you should about what you give and what you lose it the question that from it I started thinking to do some changes in my life and it was like that:

  1. Before discovering what you don’t have you should cover what you have
  2. The wage mustn’t be Always an amount it could be another kind of adding value.
  3. Time Is money, so our life is our Time as a result management Time Is management our wealth.
  4. Before teaching students New skills you should apply those skills by your self

Now thinking on creating my own business is my aim and iam already working on my self to find the best project for me .

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Bal Didin
Bal Didin